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Original poster

Please help

25 replies

Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:27

Can someone help this is really embarrassing
I slept with someone on the 9th of June 2017 and them somebody else the 8th of July 2017...... my due date was the 31st of march 2018???? All my scan dates go back to, two weeks after I slept with the June guy so is he likely to be my son's dad????

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offside · 21/12/2018 20:28

Have you posted about this before, OP?

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:29

No

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RandomMess · 21/12/2018 20:33

How many weeks pregnant did the scan date say you were on what date?

6 weeks pregnant is usually 4 weeks after you conceived because they count front the 1st day of your period

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:35

13 weeks pregnant at my first scan

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Polly99 · 21/12/2018 20:36

I think it is more likely the July guy.

Your due date would be 31 March based on a 28 day cycle and a lmp date of 24 June. If your last period began on 24 June then assuming a fairly average cycle you would have ovulated around 7 or 8 July.

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:36

And that was 25.9.17

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RandomMess · 21/12/2018 20:36

What date was that scan on

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:37

25.9.2017

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RandomMess · 21/12/2018 20:38

July guy

RandomMess · 21/12/2018 20:40

You conceived 11 weeks prior to your scan date, 11 weeks earlier was 11th July

Redglitter · 21/12/2018 20:41

Have you posted about this before, OP

If not its amazing how many people have this problem

Florries · 21/12/2018 20:43

I'm sure I saw this exact problem on Jeremy Kyle the other day?

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:45

This is defo a Jeremy Kyle situation

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Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:52

Yeah I thought it would be July guy people were confusing me telling me it was the June guy I just wanted to be sure I was right

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JeSuisPrest · 21/12/2018 20:52

Not wanting to state the obvious, but did you have unprotected sex with both of them or was there a contraceptive failure?

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 20:55

June guy was my ex I was on the pill but we finished mid June and I stupidly stopped taking it then met someone else

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flimp · 21/12/2018 21:01

we can't answer this for you ffs

RandomMess · 21/12/2018 21:02

It's very definitely July guy...

RandomMess · 21/12/2018 21:03

Dating scans are accurate with days it wouldn't be 4 weeks out

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 21:04

I didn't ask for answer I asked who's it more likely to be! And two people have said. FFS

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Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 21:07

Thank you I knew it would be July guy as bad as it sounds! I never doubted it b4 now
In June i was with my ex and on the pill people were confusing me saying I must of got pregnant round about the 25th of June!

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Dirtybadger · 21/12/2018 21:09

Gestation is conception + 2 weeks (or first day of last period).

Get DNA testing to confirm, after.

RandomMess · 21/12/2018 21:34

No 25th June was around when your period would have started.

It is confusing because you add 2 weeks on to the date of conception so to speak

Original poster
Julie92xx · 21/12/2018 21:37

I was still on my period the 22nd of june so I was on b4 the 25th

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RandomMess · 21/12/2018 21:49

Doesn't matter your cycle will have been messed up due to having been on the pill you conceived in July

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