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Husband changed?

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TTT720 · 18/12/2018 01:32

My husband (of 16 years) now seems to hate me. He is so rude and unsupportive.... I’m baffled! I once had a high powered job...now I do nothing and I’m appalled actually. But we have 3 children and I need to make sure that they are ok. How did this happen?

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Grannyannex · 18/12/2018 01:35

Do you think it’s to do with you being a SAHP?

How long has he been like this?

In what ways is he rudeness and unsupportive?

Singlenotsingle · 18/12/2018 01:38

I suppose the situation's changed a lot over the years, and you aren't an independent career woman any more. Maybe he's just stopped respecting you now that you're a sahm. Really you need to talk to him and find out what's gone wrong. You haven't given us much detail OP. Does he moan? What does he say? What is his problem?

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TTT720 · 18/12/2018 01:40

Agh what does SAHP mean?

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TTT720 · 18/12/2018 01:43

Ok got it! Sorry for my ignorance, please don’t judge. It’s late so I will pick this up in the morning. Thank you x

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Cherries101 · 18/12/2018 02:18

You’re not the woman he was attracted to and wanted to marry. I think it’s probably about more than just your job (or lack of one). Have you let yourself go physically? How is your sex life?

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