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Heartbroken .. sorry ... just need a hug

16 replies

babbi · 16/12/2018 22:11

Sorry ... totally aware people have real and bigger problems..
but my heart is broken after the end of a relationship and I have lots of real life support...

But tonight I’m struggling badly,, I’m crying so hard ... trying to be brave ...
I know that in a years time I’ll feel better but tonight I’m hurting and wish there was a fast track to 2020 ...

Sincerely send my best wishes to anyone else doing a break up just now ... it’s hard ..

OP posts:
Sisterlove · 16/12/2018 22:13

Break ups are hard, but sometimes it's just not meant to be.

It doesn't make it less painful though.

noego · 16/12/2018 22:14
Flowers
babbi · 16/12/2018 22:15

Thanks sister .. you are right of course ..
not meant to be ..

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Ohyesiam · 16/12/2018 22:17

A big warm kind hug for you op all the way from the West Country.
May your heart heal swiftly x

Redland12 · 16/12/2018 22:17

Hey babbi, I have been there too I know all the feelings and emotions you are having right now, it’s heart wrenching. There is no easy fix you just have to ride it out. You will be ok, 💐💐

OurChristmasMiracle · 16/12/2018 22:18

You are grieving for all that might have been. It’s perfectly normal to cry and to regret and to think what if. Give yourself permission to have these feelings deal with them, and then move on.

Thoughts are with you x

babyarz · 16/12/2018 22:19

Lots of hugs. I've been there. It's hard. But time is a good healer. I wish I could of fast forward to now as I'm now with the love of my life and we have a gorgeous 3 month boy x

Peaches2018 · 16/12/2018 22:21

Sending big hugs and that things will get better even if it takes time ThanksThanks

sparklyDMs · 16/12/2018 22:25

I've been in your situation, I know how much it hurts now but like you said it won't always feel like this.
Sending hugs and Thanks

babbi · 16/12/2018 22:31

This is why I just love Mumsnet 😍

Thanks everyone.... for taking the time to respond ... it does help ...

I’ll be fine ... a few tears and then plaster on a smile ... !

Life will be better 😀😀

Bloody men... 😬😂

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babbi · 16/12/2018 22:33

Sorry congratulations badtarz on your baby 👶🏻 boy .... wonderful news !!!!

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babbi · 16/12/2018 22:33

Babyarz ...

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BE2BN2BE · 16/12/2018 22:38

I’m so sorry. I’m five weeks into my breakup, still broken but still breathing and I hate to say it but time is a healer. The memories aren’t as raw but the pain still niggles. Be strong, post on here and keep your head up lovely xx

babygoose48 · 16/12/2018 22:40

I’m also going through. Been 5 days now and the sadness is overwhelming 💔

You are not alone xx

Fireandfury1 · 16/12/2018 23:14

Sorry for your pains and sending warmest of hugs and strength. Xxxx Heal fast xxxx

JK1773 · 16/12/2018 23:19

I’m sorry you are in pain. I’m a year on. Happily and confidently single. You will be fine, you know this anyway. Be really kind to yourself and spend as much time as you can with people who love you. Things will get better. You’re allowed to be upset. Don’t feel guilty or self indulgent about that. Let the grief come naturally. Take it one day at a time. Your train of thought will gradually change and life will be better Flowers

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