Advise needed

[minty3000]

Hi

I know this is mainly a mums site but am after some advice.

My wife and I seperated 6 years ago after about a year of arguments, we had been together 18 years, i pleaded with her to take me back but she refused, after about 6 months I started seeing someone else, nothing serious but company really, she then came to me and said lets try again.
Obviously i was delighted so we started rebuilding our relationship again living in seperate houses, as time went on things got better. However we never stayed in each others houses, or she could never discuss living together, about a month ago I started bringing up the issue of why I dont get to stay at her house or why we cant live together. As I became persistent with the question our relationship has turned sour again and she has now said our relationship is over and hasnt spoke to me or been in contact for over 2 weeks. L

There are a number of issues which she says stops her from trusting me.

When we seperated my son resided with me
She cant forgot I was in another relationship

Just feel gutted at the moment and dont know how to move forward

For your own well-being, I think you need to accept that your marriage is over, because it is. It's done and you're not getting back together. Retain a solicitor and move on.

I’m sorry but she doesn’t want to try. Time to look after yourself and move on

Hello i think she was probably very hurt that you had another relationship so soon after. Having been together so long perhaps she thought you’d moved on too quick. If she is saying its really over and wont discuss it with you have to accept that and start moving forward with your life.

Why not contact a local tattoo artist and have DOORMAT inked on your forehead?

Well after 5 years of trying she has decided it over and she is seeing someone else