FFS - my ex is a complete & utter nuttercase

[user09239423]

Urgh, I just have to get it off my chest. He's a nutter. Borderline personality, gaslighting, violent, denying & he thinks I'm the one with the attitude problem. Yes, I have a problem, I didn't block him on across the board at my first opportunity. You can't reason with crazy. He says I'm the crazy one & he's even offering to 'help me with my difficult feelings'. He's a fucking nutcase. He has previous for DV.

I.want.him.out.of.my.life.

Urgh.

Have you reported any of this the police and got advice from them? And keep the evidence.

Yes I have reported. I was sad that there doesn't seem to be much joined-up communication with police around the country because it became apparent that two separate forces didn't know he had previous. It should all be on one database.

I think you have been dating my ex lol.
They are all the same these men. It's as if they were all given the same book 'how to be an abusive bastard and send women crazy'.
Keep yourself safe because one mental abuse can quickly escalate to physical abuse one their normal tools of torture stop being effective.
Don't try to reason with it or make sense of it, it's his problem not yours.

Meant to read IME not one