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I'm so stupid!!

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thelaststraw123 · 01/12/2018 23:33

Left a refuge where I was happy to go back to a violent relationship.

Now he's wanted for 2 counts of ABH and 1 of common assault.

I had to call police again last night, ended up being dropped at my dads at 1am by two police officers.

Back to refuge tomorrow, just feel like an idiot for coming back at all

OP posts:
Reflexella · 01/12/2018 23:39

You aren’t an idiot.
It’s hard to leave a relationship even when the person is abusive.
Don’t be hard on yourself x

maximumcarnage · 01/12/2018 23:43

You made a mistake. We all make foolish decisions sometimes and I expect in this case you had some good cause to try again. It didn’t work out. Not a problem just don’t go back. Move on with your life and find someone who is good to you.

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