My younger sister has not spoken to me since May. She upset me on my birthday with things she said and because i retaliated and told her a few home truths she has decided she never wants to speak to me again. I have asked her if we can just move on from it as it is really upsetting my 88 year old mother, however she will not even consider it.
I am unsure whether to be the bigger person and buy her a xmas present, although another part of me thinks ' why the hell should i'. She and my mother are going away for xmas so she doesn't have to see me. We have always had christmas together for the last 58 years. I am not really bothered if i see her again as she can be difficult, but i feel sorry for my mum and it makes it difficult for the wider family