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Snapchat - is this innocent?

9 replies

CartoonCat · 19/11/2018 11:33

So - am interested in a guy I’ve been spending quite a bit of time with. Yesterday we were out together sat at a table, and saw a Snapchat message pop up on his lock screen.

I asked about it although didn’t see it properly (I think it was his reaction that drew attention to it more than anything), he looked flustered and said it was a random girl he hadn’t seen in four years. We then had a general talk about Snapchat and he mentioned only installing it a year ago and that he doesn’t like to use it. I asked him if he was going to reply to the message and he said no, of course not, she’s probably just sent it to all the guys on her Snapchat.

Is this weird?

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Notacluewhatthisis · 19/11/2018 11:43

Is what weird?

That he has Snapchat but does use it? I am like that.

I also know that some people send photos out to everyone in their contacts, the app offers to this when you post a photo. I wouldn't reply to it either, if it went to everyone.

fussygalore118 · 19/11/2018 11:46

What is weird is you asking about something popping up in someone else's phone! Bit nosy and rude!

CartoonCat · 19/11/2018 11:49

Ah that’s fair. I only asked because he reacted as he did.

Asking mostly as I don’t have Snapchat so don’t know how it works

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Notacluewhatthisis · 19/11/2018 12:04

I might look baffled if someone I have spoken to for years messaged me.

Trinity66 · 19/11/2018 12:11

What;s weird that he doesn't use snap chat or that a girl messaged him? I would say neither are

ErickBroch · 19/11/2018 15:19

Depending on your age I would find it weird if someone I was seeing still used snapchat.

CartoonCat · 19/11/2018 15:21

Glad I checked in 🙂

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pudding21 · 19/11/2018 16:03

I had a one night thing with a very hot younger guy a few months ago. He was lovely, just wouldn't have gone anywhere. Anyway, he sends me almost daily pics of him in his pants flexing in the bathroom mirror. Sometimes I reply, nice abs, or looking strong, but most of the time I ignore. I reckon he must send to EVERY girl he has every had anything with so I humour him.

Doesn't mean anything at all. I am seeing someone now, but its early days too.

Lifeisabeach09 · 19/11/2018 16:22

Are you exclusive?
I would wonder if he was seeing someone else.

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