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Don’t want to cave 😩😩

7 replies

Spotthefool88 · 17/11/2018 12:38

It’s nearly a weekNC with an asshole who basically used me
For seven months...he’s coming to my town today for an night out and stay over in a hotel very very close to me. Obviously I’m not gonna land at the hotel and I’m not going out tonight so won’t be bumping into him. But I really want to contact him actually no I really want him to contact me and ask me how I am ugh I miss his stupid face today

I’m currently out with family atm and have plans with a friend for dinner later encourage me not to cave (also I don’t have him number so can’t ring him would only be able to contact through insta)

OP posts:
MissConductUS · 17/11/2018 12:54

Don't cave. Remind yourself what an asshole he is. Find a new boyfriend.

PolkaDoting · 17/11/2018 13:02

DO NOT CAVE!

Spotthefool88 · 17/11/2018 13:09

I really really hope I won’t I feel quite upset today over it all probably because he’s so close to me today usually he’s about 40 miles away which makes it a bit easier

OP posts:
Oldstyle · 17/11/2018 13:18

Write down the top 5 most undermining, thoughtless, cruel, devious, unpleasant things he did to you. Read them at frequent intervals and take a moment to feel again how you felt then.
You are worth so much more.
DON'T CAVE!

toffeeapple123 · 17/11/2018 20:26

Stay strong! Short term pain for long term gain. Hang in there!

ohfourfoxache · 17/11/2018 20:31

Don’t you dare - you’ve already done the hard bit x

Shadow1234 · 18/11/2018 01:04

Agree with 'Oldstyle' - always remember why you are not with them anymore. Dont remember the good times, remember the bad times - that should convince you to stay strong and move on.

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