Need Advice

[shibuliboom]

Hi I am working out of my country I've been here for more than a year. Never been attracted to someone else. I have a daughter and a loving partner. I just didn't expect that I will be attracted to a girl who is my co worker and somehow boss. At first, we never talked nor smiled at each other until one time I noticed how beautiful she is though she is somehow tomboyish. One day I just smiled at her and greeted her then it became a habit until one day to mu surprise when I saw her she hugged me and said she missed me. The next day I saw her and she hugged me again after those moments I cant stop thinking of her. I dont want to make any conclusions because it sound crazy and stupid. Please help me.. Thanks..

Unless there's anything more to this, it sounds like a stupid crush which you have to wake up and see reality. You're in a great relationship and with a daughter. We're only human and fancying someone else is normal but have morals and respect, and shake it off.

shibuliboom if you want to stay married/with yoir partner I'd find another job. It sounds like a crush. Good luck.

Thanks a lot 😊

I don't mean it harshly. By all means explore a lesbian affair if you want to. But then you have to face the fact you keep it secret from your husband or maybe you tell him and it breaks you up.

If this boss were male it female the reality is if you stay in the job you risk an affair.

Really do appreciate ur answers..