What do you call this

[notevenwithconsent]

Sorry in advance for thick post.

Another thread made me thin’ of it. My ex would refuse to remember stuff. Wouldn’t use a calendar or diary for household stuff. I was expected to remember it all and remind him. He wouldn’t take responsibility for anything.

Is it called passive aggressive? Or something else?

'Wifework'

Thank you.

I call it being a dick but that's a handy catch-all for a range of nonsense.