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Whats this all about?

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Feckers2018 · 09/11/2018 21:01

Well its Friday night hurrah! I have a really stressful job so I love relaxing on a Friday. H bought a curry and went on about films/Netflix in a friendly way. All good. Good moods all round.
Go into sitting room and he's watching a programme about land rovers. I say I don't want to watch this. He then goes mental saying theres nothing on. What do you want to watch? I say I would need to look. So he throws remote at me saying why should he look for me. Then says I was aggressive when I came in the room( only said I didn't want to watch land rovers)

I had thought we were going to watch something together. Anyway when I tried to stick up for myself he starts shouting that I cant stop going on and on.

So I left the room and he's gone out.
What was that all about then? causing an argument to get out?

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Orange6904 · 09/11/2018 21:05

Sounds dodgy picking a fight over something small, has everything been okay lately?

maximumcarnage · 10/11/2018 00:30

He must really, really love Land Rovers. Confused

DontBuyANewMumCashmere · 10/11/2018 00:35

If you walked in and just said "I don't wanna watch this" he may have thought you were being rude.

If you said something like "Are we going to watch something together?" then he couldn't possibly say you were being rude.

In any case he completely overreacted and shouting and throwing stuff around is borderline abusive!
Maybe he's projecting on to you as he feels guilty about something. Maybe he just felt in a grump and lashed out.

Shriek · 10/11/2018 00:39

Yep... Excuse to go out

TheyBuiltThePyramids · 10/11/2018 00:42

Excuse to go out.

TheyBuiltThePyramids · 10/11/2018 00:43

Twat

Redskyandrainbows67 · 10/11/2018 08:23

Excuse to go out

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