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Still time to meet Mr Right?

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HollyLM · 08/11/2018 20:04

I'm 30 - about to leave my current relationship as it's destroying me! Is there still time for me to meet Mr Right, set up a new home and have more children? Xx

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Noodella18 · 08/11/2018 20:13

Of course!!!! Sooner you get out of the shit relationship the sooner you can start to heal and put your energy into finding somebody great.
I broke up with long term partner when I was almost 29. Best thing I ever did, it was tough to get over but over the next 4 years I spent almost a year travelling, made loads of new mates, learned loads about myself, dated loads of people, including people I never would have considered before, shagged about a bit, had a few short relationships and finally met somebody wonderful just before I was 33. We got engaged in July and I’m now pregnant with our baby a few months before I turn 35 :)

Life’s too short to be in a shit relationship, be brave, embrace the change and you will be absolutely fine. More than fine in fact!

nicelyneurotic · 08/11/2018 20:14

Yes loads of time!! You have about 10 more years of so to potentially conceive. You could meet someone sooner than you think.

Notacluewhatthisis · 08/11/2018 20:15

Jesus Christ. Of course there is

My brother didn't meet his wife until he was 32. He is now 40, married with 2 kids.

I left exh at 35. A few days later met my best friends brother for the first time. A year down the line we are a couple and planning on ttc next year.

You have loads of time.

Santaispolishinghissleigh · 08/11/2018 20:16

I met dh at 41 and had ds at 43!!

Whipsmart · 08/11/2018 20:17

Bloody hell from the title I though you were going to say you were 40! You've got tons of time.

helloooomeee · 08/11/2018 20:20

Yes. I split from XH aged 33 with an overwhelming sadness that my family wasn't complete.

Met dp a few months later and now engaged with a further 3 kids.

Magik1 · 08/11/2018 20:20

Loads of time, leave now and get on with Your life.

Rachelover40 · 08/11/2018 20:22

Yes, you are young. You will meet someone lovely, have babies and live happily ever after!

Life begins at 30.

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HollyLM · 08/11/2018 21:48

So basically I'm being completely ridiculous and over thinking as always!!!! Lol!!! ..

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Sexnotgender · 08/11/2018 21:50

Totally!!!

I left my husband of 10 years when I was 31.

Met my lovely new husband when I was 34, I’m now 30 weeks pregnant.

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