Is it just coincidence or bad luck or is there something about me that attracts them??
I met a man online through a Facebook local singles group (so I obviously thought he's single) - he messaged me & asked me to meet him. He cancelled once due to work but we were finally due to meet up today.
Then last night a girl I didn't know sent me a message on FB messenger - turns out it was his girlfriend!! So obviously I'm not meeting him now.
Before Christmas I dated a doctor from my workplace (a hospital), he seemed lovely & we had lots in common. But something wasn't right.
Yes, he had a wife AND children living abroad. So I finished with him.
Also I've had a few married men (mainly drs) ask me out for drinks, one even asked if he could visit (!) every Friday as my house is near his football ground! Again I said no to them all.
But I just wonder why it's always men with partners who pick me.
I seem approachable maybe as I'm friendly to everyone because I'm a healthcare assistant & that's my way. I wouldn't say I'm especially flirty though.
I'm also aware that I'm very vulnerable because I have mental health problems & maybe men pick up on that.
Because I am vulnerable I'm extra cautious as in the past I've often attracted men with drug habits & other bad issues as well.
I just want to meet a nice normal man with a spark of attraction there. I would just like a boyfriend to go on dates with & take it from there.