Reality

[JW1226]

So I'm here wondering as I usually do...
I am struggling putting this into words but I was just reading an old thread about affairs and long marriages.

Most the people who commented knew many married couples that have been unfaithful over the years some found out and some secrets.
One poster said 80% of her male work colleagues where routinely unfaithful.

Maybe I'm a fantasist to thinking and believing that relationships can be 100% faithful honest and loyal to the end.

And yes I'm writing this now because my OH had been living the double life when I thought he was 100% faithful to me. Talk about happily ever after !

I definitely think relationships can be 100% faithful, honest and loyal to the end. But I think it takes a good lot of luck in addition to the necessary individual qualities of the people and relationship involved. I think it's much harder than people would like to think, a lot of the time.

for you. Snap on being completely blindsided by a complete double life. There is absolutely no way anybody could have guessed. C'est la vie.