Most ridiculous relationship issues ever...

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Snogging my DH gives me terrible acne where his nose touches my face (WHY??!).

I've struggled with acne all my adult life and it gets me down, so I either avoid kissing him or have to do it really "neatly" so only our mouths touch.

He feels hurt that I care more about acne than restriction-free snogging.

I can't believe I'm nearly 40 and have written a post containing the word "snogging" repeatedly.

Any thoughts?

Sounds like he has oily skin maybe?

Yes, probably, Sponge. I don't think he'd like it if I asked him to wash his face before kissing me though

Maybe not, but if he thought it might have benefits for him... :)

Question - do you both use the same facewash? Moisturiser or other products? Handwash? I'm wondering if its product residue that you're reacting to rather than oil on his face - I touch my nose a lot during the day when I'm thinking about things or tired, I could imagine harsh work soap ending up on his hands -> his nose -> your hypersensitive skin.

Interesting thought, @stormtreader, thank you.
And yes that is true, @SpongBobJudgeyPants.

It is a ridiculous problem. But surprisingly impactful.

I realise any sort of 'facial preparation' seems like it takes away the spontaneity of 'sexy times', but isn't it similar to making sure you are clean/ contraceptive precautions etc? I seem to spend a lot of time and money on my skin, so this would be an issue for me too.

Though I think Storm's suggestion that it is some kind of allergy/sensitivity is probably the way to broach it, as it's making it a general problem and not a personal issue 'caused' by him iuswim.

Sounds like you have found the perfect contraception for the over 40's!!

He feels hurt that I care more about acne than restriction-free snogging.

Surely if he cared about you he would try and find out what causes you to break-out. He could try exfoliating, a weekly mud mask, wash his face with a facewash for greasy skin?