Date tonight

[pinkpixie83]

I'm meant to be going out on a second date tonight..... I'm really not feeling it.

I should cancel shouldn't I? Irrelevant that I've gone to the effort to get a babysitter it's fairer on everyone isn't it?

Depends if it's nerves or a real lack of interest or dislike. Which is it?

It's a he's nice to chat to but I don't feel any physical attraction and he's possibly too intense for me.

I'd cancel, yes. I think a second date should be one that brings with it a sense of excited anticipation. Trust your feelings.

Maybe just go along and see how the 2nd date goes.
I always give them 2 dates just to make sure.
You have a babysitter in place already.
You might enjoy it?

Cancel. You know in your heart you don't want to go. Life is too short for you and for him. I have wasted much of my time on men who I pretty much knew straight away weren't for me. Good luck in future OP.

Cancel... in my experience if you're not feeling it you never will

If you're not feeling it don't go. Can you make use of the babysitter anyway, go to a singles night, catch up with a friend etc?

Cancel