Has anyone had success with Relate/marriage counselling?

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Asking for a friend

Anyone?

I went to Relate with my now ex-husband. At best it delayed our separation for a year. Sorry that's probably not what you want to hear.

My bf went with his exW ... The relate told his exW he clearly had checked out of the relationship and there was nothing she could do.

Hmmm ok.

I don't think our relationship is beyond repair and I want to get in there before it's too late. Not sure if counselling will work but feel I need some sort of intervention before things get worse over time.