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I’ve had enough.

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JPK1989 · 28/09/2018 22:10

Hi,

When it comes to friendships and relationships - I put in 100% to make things work but why is it that I always get only 20% back?

I’ve really had enough of trying...

In a relationship, I’m 100% comitted to that person and give them more than they deserve yet I’m always left hanging half way through or tossed straight out. Do I need to be a bit* in order to get the love and attention I deserve? I’ve had enough of being nice and loving.

OP posts:
pallasathena · 29/09/2018 07:44

Read 'Women Who Love Too Much'. It helped my colleague who had a similar situation.

HereIgoagainxx · 29/09/2018 07:48

Yes, that's an excellent book. You need to stop accepting less, which is hard sometimes to see when it's a pattern.

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