I just found out my husband built up 4K debt I didn't know about. I don't know what for. He had a credit card with 3K , now he took 7k loan topay off all. We both work , but neither of us earn much. He drives 30 miles to work, I wanted him to change job for closer/better paid one, but he refused , as he's happy there. He smokes cannabis every day. Yesterday finally he admitted he had a problem. He said he was sorry, but I'm not sure what for, what he did or got caught. I don't know what to do. I'm shocked. We've got six years old.