So what would you think if your ex was in your house coming to pick up your son and he was chatting to you about random stuff she takes an unflattering picture of you lying down ( relaxing on sofa, but you didnt realise at the time he had taken a picture) then some time later he sends you said picture over what's app? Then you tell him what the point in that and he said 'oh you have issues it's only a picture I'm glad I went with my instincts and left you')