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Dating sites

11 replies

Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 14:54

I found my husband on dating sites.
Now everytime I hear of women saying about meeting a guy on online, n sexting ( cos that's what he did) I just keep thinking urgh!!!! That could be my husband!!
Will be divorcing the looser soon.

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LadyFlangeWidget · 11/09/2018 14:57

Why divorce? What did he do?do you think dating sites are rife with losers texting ever woman they can? You are probably right. I've met some losers and weirdos on them. Loads don't have a profile pic. Probably married in search of a quick shag or 2.

Goldilocks3Bears · 11/09/2018 15:02

I think OP means her hubby is on dating sites NOW rather than when she met him way back.

Sorry OP - that’s a horrendous discovery. How many sites and which ones? I’ve come across other people’s husbands before so if he’s doing this at home assume someone single you know will have seen him too. Prick.

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Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 15:04

My husband was found on loads of them, sexting and cheating!!!! Il divorce him as soon as I can as I don't want to be married to him whilst he is with other ppl( just my opinion). I know not all blokes on dating sites are like that,. He used tinder that kind of thing, I just thought those sort were more pick up sites!! Could be wrong tho. Yes I do belive there is a lot of married men on them and it makes me sick x

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Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 15:06

Prick, exactly Goldilocks x

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Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 15:06

Tinder, pof, bumble those kind of ones

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Goldilocks3Bears · 11/09/2018 15:31

Get rid of him.

Storm4star · 11/09/2018 16:46

I'm single and have used dating sites in the past. Now, when I see posts here of women catching their husbands with dating profiles it really rams it home to me just how many men on these sites aren't single. I've spoken to a fair few guys who never seemed to be available to chat evenings and weekends! Of course I'd always stop speaking to them once I realised but I think it's scarily common. I'm sorry this has happened to you.

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Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 16:51

Thanx to you all xx of course I kicked him out, sorry excuse for a man!!!
It makes me weary cos I have thought gosh what if I wanted to try online dating(I don't) but what if I came across him!!!! Just makes me sad and sick how many men on there are married or in a long term relationship.
Ahh well onwards and upwards I guess xx

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Storm4star · 11/09/2018 16:58

Well good for you anyway that you're dumping his cheating ass! You're better off without someone like that in your life.

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Airflight303 · 11/09/2018 18:21

Thank you you are soo right xx

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summersun0191 · 12/09/2018 09:47

I'm on a few dating sites now and I have put in my "about me" section that I will not entertain married men at all so move on. Its amazing how many guys on there have photos of themselves with wedding rings on, I know these may be old photos but a lot of them wont be. Made me very dubious about been on them to be honest as I'm a suspicious person as it is.

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