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Would you want to stay with him??
He sent his ex (my sister-they split well over a decade ago, possibly two) dick pics one night. She was horrified and told him never to contact her again and told his fiancé via Facebook. They are still together and have since gone on to have another child (they had two kids at the time).
He was always one of those "you were always the one" "if only things had been different" etc. He claimed he and his fiancée led separate lives, he was only staying for the kids, he wasn't sure one of them was even his, she'd tricked him into getting engaged, tricked him into getting her pregnant by saying she was on the pill. Yada yada cheaters script. Luckily she wasn't interested in him and wasn't going to fall for any of his bullshit. She'd known him about 20 years and had a bit of an on off thing after a very intense late teens relationship. It fell apart because he was jealous, controlling and generally a dick.
Him and his fiancé have been engaged for about 10 years and in their 40s.
I'm baffled as to why she would stay with him knowing he'd sent dick pics to his ex that she wouldn't even allow him to be friends with on Facebook as she was apparently "insanely jealous." Even more baffling why she'd have another child with him when surely she wouldn't be able to trust him.
I personally couldn't stay with someone who did that but know many women do.