My dp is working so hard at the moment that when he comes to see me he is too tired for sex. We have only been together for 9 months and i have tried to be understanding. My sister has recommended using a vibrator while my dp sorts things out at work.(he's trying to lighten his work load) I dont want to offend him but i have a high sex drive and its causing me to be irritable. I want to know what you think i should?