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Sweetmummy77 · 05/08/2018 18:28

Met this guy at work and we both seem to like each other. We had a little date on Friday and all seems good and he is planning another date tomorrow lunch time. He has admitted being very shy around me which I can't understand as he is a confident guy. I guess I am nervous about tomorrow and worried I will get hurt.

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Singlenotsingle · 05/08/2018 18:31

Just don't think ahead, don't plan, and try to take it one step at a time. And don't dtd until you're good and ready. Good luck.

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Sweetmummy77 · 05/08/2018 18:45

Thank you, Unfortunately i have not had the best track record. I also always hated this stage of dating. On date one the closest he got was holding hands and a very quick squeeze of my thigh while he was driving

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peekyboo · 05/08/2018 19:15

See, you're better at it than me because he'd have got the death stare for the thigh squeeze.

Which is why I'm single and you've got a second date!

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Sweetmummy77 · 05/08/2018 19:20

It's strange usually I would have freaked out at that. But the way he did it was almost very playfully and went straight back to holding hands.

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Singlenotsingle · 05/08/2018 20:04

You've got the right idea peekyboo Grin

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Sweetmummy77 · 06/08/2018 18:53

Update! We didn't have lunch due to work commitments. I decided to talk to him and put my cards on the table. I didn't expect it to go well however it did! He is happy to take things slowly and get to know eachother properly. He is conscious that I am new at the company so wants me to find my feet with my job. (He is very supportive to what I do workwise) we both appear to be quite sweet on eachother. (Apparently he thought i was lovely from day one) just glad we cleared the air! Really thought it was going to be closure so shocked!

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