Can anyone recommend a book on helping codependent couples rebuild their relationship?
My husband and I are both codependent, there's no chemical addictions or violence, we have just slowly - through our own insecurities - dug ourselves into a codependent and dysfunctional hole. We are trying to find our way out and making some progress but Melodie Beattie's book focuses so much on breaking free of the relationship that I'm wondering if there is an alternative that looks a bit more optimistically at staying together and healing ourselves and our marriage?