partner has just received a blackmail email of someone who located his password to a porn site, recorded everything and then asked for a payment within a day. he has gone to the local police about it.
i'm not squeamish about porn sites or use of porn. however we have had a long break from a normal sex life with little kids and a big move for his work, and he refuses to talk to a counselor with me about it.
this leaves me feeling like we don't have much left.