I'm not going to leave (yet) but I want to get my thoughts in order.
We haven't had sex in 20 months
He lies about porn use
When I was stressed with the kids he told me I was doing it wrong, then told me to 'chill the fuck up' in a sneering tone then accused me of starting a row in public when I pulled him up on it!
I work, reasonable pay, but have 2 small kids (preschool, one with additional needs), some debt, and live in a fairly expensive area. I am not in a financial position to go anywhere right now. But I am quite sure he doesn't love or like me much and the above incident has killed my love for him.