Just wondering what your views are in this .
My husband and I have been together for 17 years married for 11 years.
Today my dd needed to change a password on her computer and the password recovery setting was to my husband's email address. I know my husband's password as he uses the same password for everything and as I couldn't get hold of him to find out what the code was to type in to change the password. I signed in to his account on my phone and delete I'm going to delete it once her password was sorted out.
Anyways I'm a nosy cow and ended up in his spam emails and there was messages from women etc but they were in the spam and weren't replied to.
I know he did used to watch alot of porn and maybe these are linked to some sites he has been on in the past even though these spam emails were recent.
They are probably sent automatically.
But I thought well I might have something like that in my spam folder and not known but I've been through mine and there are no spam emails like women or men trying to get in touch with me or meet me etc mine are just cooking,education and psychic readings.
So from this I am taking it he has signed up somewhere on a porn site or dating site and he's getting these from them because he has put his details in somewhere.
One of the sites that was there was one called meet me. I don't know the others.
I know there is nothing I can do and if I ask him he will just say it's from other sites but not the ones I'm thinking of.
Just feeling a bit blah as if he was on these meet me things. Why would he do that?