So 3 children with ex's and one on the way with current boyfriend was a shock but chose to carry on as he promised to stop smoking weed . He did amazing and cigarettes to . But recently found out he had some of both and lied to me Bout it he has lied in the past too . I'm 23 weeks pregnant and haven't let him move in or be a propper family because there no trust he lied and I don't no what to do know at all. He says he loves me and wants us to be a family but lies to me. And does that behind my back which is never allow around my children ever. Please help feel so alone n think I made a huge mistake trusting him to change for me . Know I'm pregnant n going to be alone with 4 ..