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Opposite of fair weather friends?!

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Newbabies15 · 02/07/2018 11:58

Since having my twins my relationship with a group of friends has changed. We weren’t best of friends before but since having my babies, their behaviour makes me angry.

We have a whatsapp group and some of my friends have babies. They post photos and ask for advice and I comment and compliment, and so do my friends. But for some reason when I post photos of my twins, hardly anyone compliments. My friends always have problems too and they complain regularly without doing anything about it. They all enjoy helping each other with their problems - they would also help me.

They’re like the opposite of fair weather friends if that makes sense?! Is there such a thing?! If your life is good , they don’t want to know.

OP posts:
Disquieted1 · 02/07/2018 12:12

What's the problem?

Keep your positive outlook and leave them to wallow in their misery. Some people are not happy unless they're having a moan, leave them to it.

Newbabies15 · 02/07/2018 12:14

I’m just scared of being without any friends if I leave them be.

OP posts:
Oddcat · 02/07/2018 12:18

Just carry on as you are , FB and whatssap shouldn't be so stressful, it's not real life . Focus on what people do for you in real life and what you do for them.

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