So i posted last week about my bf dumping out of the blue. Literally just got a text saying he cant do this anymore and needs space.
I told him thats fine, im here if you need me and left it like that. Then thw next day he text me about a doctors appointment he'd been to like nothing was wrong. I just told him I hope he feels better soon and didnt reply again. He then text me the next day more about his doctors app so i asked what it is he wants from me because he's the one who ended an 18 month relationship over text out of the blue. He said he wanted to come and talk.
He came round that night (48 hours after split) really crying saying he's so sorry hes a dickhead, life is being hard atm and he should of talked to me instead of running away. I forgave him but said I dont give third chances so hes needs to be sure.
Since then he has only been round twice (usually here about 5 nights a week) stuff has been fine when hes here but every time hes come hes took random belonging back that have been here forever (all his shoes, an iron, a plunger) just small things but seemed odd they suddenly all needed removing. Hes also gone from never really planning anything with his friends to suddenly starting playing darts on a Tuesday going the gym 2 or 3 times a week and booking a lads holiday.
I feel like he's trying to phase me out of his life? But why would he turn up in tears and tell me how much he loved me if he wanted out all along? Since he ended it all my trust is gone and i dont know if im just finding things that aren't there.
Has anyone any experience of this? Did it work out or is this just the start of the end?