Please hand me a grip - birthday

[AndThenISaidNothing]

I’m scared of my birthday tomorrow. The first one after my STBXH walked out for the OW. I’m scared of wakeing up alone, the house empty and quiet. He used to wake me with coffee and ham and cheese croissants. I miss him so much. Guess he’s doing this for her now.

Someone needs to slap me and tell me I’m pathetic. I’m just a scared mess tonight.

Oh op no slaps from me. It is scary. But I absolutely promise you that you will get through this and this time next year you will feel a million times better.

And happy birthday for tomorrow

Virtual and tomorrow? Lunchtime??

Aw, it all sounds raw and new.

Make tomorrow a day for treating yourself as you deserve.

Things usually feel better in the morning.

Happy Birthday. Hope you’ve had a good day 🎂

Thank you everyone. I had a lovely day actually 😊

Oh I'm really pleased. The firsts of anything like this are always daunting but usually the anticipation is worse than the actuality.

Glad you had a good day! You can conquer anything now!

So pleased you had a good day.
These things do come up and you will think back to what was.
Happy birthday for yesterday - now celebrate in style at the weekend.
Onwards and upwards.

Belated happy birthday from me too.

So pleased it turned out well - but remember the first times can often hard so be gentle on yourself - it gets better.

And you don’t need slaps or grips - just love and hugs (and )

And this is the birthday you don't have a cheating fucker in your life.

Happy Birthday doll, enjoy the freedom!