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Cheating!

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Miasmom · 17/06/2018 18:14

I had a funny feeling about a girl my oh was talking to from his old school days on Facebook recently. He has been hiding his phone and taking it with him everywhere. I decided to have a naughty look while he was showering and found he had been asking her for nudes and to meet up for dates. I’m 32 weeks pregnant. I told him what I had found straight away and he cried and said he was sorry but I can’t bring myself to forgive. I want my child to have the father I thought he was, should I forget for our child or move on? Idk if I can trust him it’s made me feel really down and worthless. Thanks in advance

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somuchunanswered · 17/06/2018 18:16

It doesn’t get much lower than that really.

How long between his last message and you finding them??

somuchunanswered · 17/06/2018 18:17

What I mean is, did he stop messaging her and then you found out, or has he stopped only because you found out?

Miasmom · 17/06/2018 18:22

He only stopped because I’ve found out:/

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somuchunanswered · 17/06/2018 18:24

Well, I’d be distancing myself from him very much for now.

Sorry you’ve been out in this position Flowers

SuperSuperSuper · 17/06/2018 20:49

People from school days can be very compelling and appealing. There's that sense of nostalgia. Shared history.

None of this excuses flirtatious messaging when you're in a relationship though! It shouldn't be happening.

And asking for nude pics is just grim.

Has he offered any explanation? If she'd said yes to a date, what then?

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