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Original poster

Verbally abused by exh at drop off

7 replies

Pixikitten0123 · 16/06/2018 17:43

Advice please, he was very angry and abusive with me when dropping kids back off, do I need to log this anywhere as it’s not the first time.

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SoddingUnicorns · 16/06/2018 17:44

Contact a solicitor, mine used to do this. It’s not on.

Was he abusive when you were together? Some men like to use pick up/drop off to continue the abuse.

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Pixikitten0123 · 16/06/2018 17:52

Alcoholic says it all really

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jayho · 16/06/2018 18:41

Film him, openly, only thing that stopped my ex.

TwoGinScentedTears · 16/06/2018 18:42

Was he drunk? Was he driving?

surlycurly · 16/06/2018 18:51

Mine used to be like this. He only stopped after one of my neighbours came out to see if I was ok. Now I have the opposite problem as he ignores everything I say/ text him

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Pixikitten0123 · 16/06/2018 19:00

He wasn’t drunk I don’t think but he’s looking rough. He really lost it shouting at me

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TwoGinScentedTears · 16/06/2018 19:11

Is the contact good for the kids? I realise you may not have any choice, I'm just wondering how the kids are managing?

All you can do when it's happening is keep your calm, show the kids that youre above it. If he threatens you log it with your local police and if you have a solicitor, them too.

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