Moment of clarity

[purplelass]

I want him in my life.
But I don't need him.

I have all I need, he's just a very nice luxury.

As you were. Just needed to say it out loud...

If you’re having to do mental gymnastics to feel unshit about a man, you need to run away very fast

Not feeling shit, just reaffirming that I don't need a man to complete me, it's just nice to have this one around without relying on him for anything.
But thank you for caring

Good. It doesn’t sound like a workable relationship but if a bit of fun is what you need right now then crack on

I think the problems arise when we persuade ourselves into being ‘cool’ about situations that do not meet our authentic needs.

Sounds like you’ve got it sorted though 👍🏻