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When I met you I thought you were capable of anything.....

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GremlinDolphin1 · 31/05/2018 23:22

and would achieve so much......!

We are not in a happy place at the moment but DH has just said this to me and is apparently mystified that I am not seeing it as a compliment and am upset?!

I say that he can’t say that without the implication that I have under achieved somehow - am I over reacting??

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HeddaGarbled · 31/05/2018 23:36

No, that's exactly how I'd interpret it. Do you feel you've underachieved? And is that anything to do with having got married and had children, by any chance?

FissionChips · 31/05/2018 23:40

That’s not even a complisult, it’s just an insult.

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