I told her

[hmmwwyd]

Wasn't sure about posting... I'm changing details when I post now as previously nearly outed myself and scared of DM

Told the woman involved with our DD's dad about his abuse and cheating

Anyone else done it and what happened? Tearing myself apart wondering if she will leave or be stupid enough to risk staying...

I'm safe and he can't find us

I know nobody can say for sure and people may disagree with doing that

I wish that my ex partner's ex wife had told me!

She will likely not listen right now. They may even scoff at you and he will use it to reinforce his theory that your a 'crazy' ex.

But your words will always be there in the back of her mind and may help her to leave him sooner rather than later.

You did a good thing OP.

Yes wish I knew what she did with it but done all I can for her now

I wish there was somewhere I could post myvx husbands full name, picture etc to warn other women but there's not.

After one incident where he assaulted me a story was printedvin the paper giving out our full names and the area we lived in so if any of his partners got in touch I'd send them that! It's on the web too.

I agree you did a good thing op.