How do I make this work?

[OhForFudgeSake]

Have EID (Emotional Instability Disorder, aka BPD).

I'm in a newish relationship and already my problems are causing an issue between us.

Can I make a relationship work long term?? I hate how I am.

Have you tried DBT? I've had this therapy and it has changed my life.

I've been put onto a waiting list for intensive therapy, however, it's 10 months long

Hard to say without knowing what sort of issues there are.