I've probably missed the train on this one as it happened around 6 or so years ago but another thread has just reminded me of this.
So years ago DP was taking part in a sporting event with a friend. It was due to be a day of the sport on the Friday, sleep over at the hotel that night followed by the Saturday doing another day of sport and drive home.
I spoke to DP Saturday morning and knew he sounded rough. I asked if he'd been out the night before. He said he hadn't (to be fair to him I used to get upset if he'd go on nights out - we'd not long had a baby and I was vulnerable, and with hindsight also a little crazy). I just knew he was lying so pushed it a bit and he admitted he had been on a night out - clearly a heavy one as him and his friend made their way home from the hotel a few hours later feeling too rough to do their sport for the day as planned.
I checked his phone log when he got back and noticed an odd number that he'd called late at night. Put the number into Google and it was a strip club that was in the city that they been in. I can't remember exactly how long the call was, possibly a minute maximum.
For some reason I never confronted him. It's crossed my mind a few times over the years as I'm not comfortable with him lying to me or strip clubs, and now I'm wondering, for what reason would you actually phone a strip club?