So very recently discovered 'D' H has at the very least been having EA (i couldn't wait to build evidence to see if it had gone physical) there is no way i can stsy in this marriage as i can no longer trust him but..
We have DS2 who whilst is 18 has LD and ASD to the point that it is like having an 8 year old so i need to put in place contact (DS2 would be devastated if he didnt spend time with him) but given 'officially' an adult how does this work? I know that H would also want to see him but can i do anything officially?