Have name changed. So, am 49, single parent with a 7yr old and 16 Yr old. I work part time and look after my mum who has dementia, my sister also looks after her so not doing it on my own. Been single for a few years now, most of the time am perfectly okay with it but sometimes I do think it would be nice to have someone just for me. However, I honestly don't think I will be able to find the energy, with my kids, my mum and job there is NOTHING left, I'm permanently exhausted despite sleeping well and eating well. How do others manage please?