Viagra

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Dh has been prescribed viagra due to short term side effects of som3 drugs he’s on. Probably till Christmas.

We are having issues with the pre planning required .... any tips? I’ve usually fallen asleep or lost the urge by the time they have kicked in.

Best advice I can come up with is to plan it in advance tbh. Make it like a date night if you can, so you both get the anticipation excitement. Or he can spend the time while you're waiting to give you a massage/foot rub/lots of foreplay.

XH had to use Viagra and it used to really irk me when he'd inform me without notice that he'd taken one, because then I almost felt obliged to go ahead even if I wasn't in the mood. However he had to accept that just because he'd taken one it didn't guarantee sex- just like if he'd had a boner I suppose.