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Where do I start

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Sinkingagain · 30/04/2018 08:40

Where do I start, I should have left years ago, I too weak I think, I’ve always had suspicions he was up to no good but he’s always talked me round and I’ve tried too move on. Been together for 24 years and he is my best friend. I have no others apart from my sister. He has been found to be texting. Others multiple times but always denied it, I found evidence of it in 2012 this was to an old school friend on Facebook. Again said he had done nothing wrong. 2014I found he had emailed escorts on his phone, he said he never went through withit.
Last couple of weeks I’ve been feeling uneasy for some reason, I checked his car and found a old phone under the seat hidden with pictures on it he has sent and pictures of him with a woman having sex.dated 2009 2010 nothing more recent
He is devastated I found it and says he’s sorry and hasn’t done anything wrong since the escort emails , Why would he keep the phone?
I can’t believe this, I have told him I’m leaving but I still love thelying piece of crap

OP posts:
Sinkingagain · 16/06/2018 20:36

Update
I am now working full time, been offered a nice house in a nice area, and I have lost all love for the useless piece of shit.
What a difference a few weeks makes.
I am still in the house for now but in my own room.
I want to thank all who contributed ,as at the time I couldn’t see a way through and this helped hugely.
He is still in denial and is carrying on as normal , as if nothing has happened. Can’t wait till I get out of here, should be in the next 2-3 weeks. thanks again xx

OP posts:
oneggshellsallthetime · 19/06/2018 07:33

That is a fantastic update - and I'm sure many others will also be glad that you have acted so swiftly rather than dither and procrastinate, which is what often happens - totally understandably - but which usually just prolongs the unhappinesss. Congratulations x

category12 · 19/06/2018 07:43

I'm glad things are looking up for you, op. Good news Smile

Alfiemoon1 · 19/06/2018 07:55

What a great update well done

ICESTAR · 19/06/2018 19:44

Wonderful update.

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