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Did I make a fool of myself in front of my ex ?

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:01

Yesterday it was a beautiful day here and I went to the beach with my friend and my godson.
We were having a good day and my friend went to get food so I was playing with her son.
Then I seen a guy and a little boy and thought wow he looks a lot like (ex )I keep looking and 10 seconds later realise it’s him.
So we made eye contact and I nervously shout my godsons name to come over next to me.
Anyway I waited a few mins and looked over (he was a few steps away) he was looking over so I quickly turned away.
He caught me looking a few times.
Then me and my godson walked into the water and my friend said he was watching you etc.
Anyway I know it’s nothing major but do you think him catching me looking at him will make him realise I still have feelings?
I should have stopped myself looking shouldn’t I ?

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Bluntness100 · 21/04/2018 22:03

Eh, how old are you? I'm guessing you're very young?

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:03

No not at all...he makes me crazy.

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:05

I just didn’t want to come across as the crazy ex keep watching him etc

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LEMtheoriginal · 21/04/2018 22:05

Of course you are going to look. Sounds like he has a family now though. X

PlaymobilPirate · 21/04/2018 22:05

Depends why he's your e's really

SoleBizzz · 21/04/2018 22:05

He was probably just surprised at seeing you and looking at you remembering. He didn't approach you So, no he isn't interested, regardless of him realising you still have feelings for him or not.

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:06

He had his son when we were a couple.
That’s how I knew it was him as I recognised him before I recognised the ex.

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:06

He would never approach me as we ended on very bad terms.

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C0untDucku1a · 21/04/2018 22:06

Could he think your god son was his?

Bluntness100 · 21/04/2018 22:07

Ok well not sure where you're going with this but it's normal to glance a few tomes at someone you know in this situation. I wouldn't worry about it or over think it.

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:07

No not at all.
We live close by so he knows I haven’t been pregnant,he was probably wondering who he was tho.

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:08

I always over think when it comes to him it’s stupid.
I keep bumping into him in random places when I’m not expecting it and getting flustered.
Walking down the street,in Asda,in the pub,walking out of amusements.

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Gemini69 · 21/04/2018 22:26

Awwww bless you OP.... it's awkward and understandable you took a double look maybe more .....

Hope you enjoyed the beach Flowers

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 22:34

He looked good too.
Just kept thinking about him today.
Silly really

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KinkyAfro · 21/04/2018 23:10

Amusements?

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Pennyanne335 · 21/04/2018 23:10

Fairground

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