Time in relationship

[kolakube1975]

Hi all

I have been with my new partner for around 5 months (which I am aware is no time at all!) and am having some trouble with the speed our relationship is going as I think it is moving quite fast.

How long were you with your partners before you: were official, moved in together and/ or got married? How long have you been together now?

I know that every relationship is different but interested to hear other people’s experiences.

TIA x

Doesn't really matter what other people have experienced, it's whether what's happening is right for you.

If you feel rushed or pressured or that things are moving too fast for you, then it's not right and you should listen to that doubt.

Last relationship -

Moved in straight away
Married 7 years after living together
Divorced 16 years later

Current relationship -

Been together nearly 2 1/2 years and can't see us living together for a very long time, if at all. Once bitten and all that...

Engaged after 3 months. Married 4 months after that. 3 years later and even happier. We 'Just knew' and went for it.