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What do you think of this?

28 replies

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 17:51

I was on Facebook and was waved at by a guy I don’t know personally he is a friend of a friend I had added because I thought I knew him from school. I replied saying hi to his wave and we carried on a conversation about how are lives have been and basically getting to know you kinda questions. We talked off and on that evening said bye nice talking to you maybe we’ll talk again. Anyway two days later he messages me with a music video of a band called The James Gang and the song “ Walk Away” from the 1970s. He didn’t say anything just the video.I’m not sure what to think so I didn’t respond but I looked up the lyrics. Would you listen to the lyrics or read them and give me your impression? I think it makes him look a little odd after one conversation. Sorry I can’t copy and paste. Blush

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Yoksha · 16/04/2018 18:05

He's up himself, or he's confusing you with someone else.

PrettyLittIeThing · 16/04/2018 18:07

Send it to the wrong person? Haven't googled it though sorry.

HollowTalk · 16/04/2018 18:09

I think he's dropping a huge hint!

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:09

Oh ok. Didn’t think of it being a mistake. That sure happens.

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frasier · 16/04/2018 18:12

Takin' my time
Choosin' my lines
Tryin' to decide what to do
Looks like my stop
Don't want to get off
Got myself hung up on you
Seems to me
You don't want to talk about it
Seems to me
You just turn your pretty head and walk away
Places I've known
Things that I'm growin'
Don't taste the same without you
I got my self in
The worst mess I've been
And I find myself starvin' without you
Seems to me
Talk all night here comes the mornin'
Seems to me
You just forget what we said and greet the day
I've got to cool myself down
Stompin' around
Thinkin' some words I can't name ya
Meet you half way
Got nothing to say
Still I don't suppose I can blame ya
Seems to me
You don't want to talk about it
Seems to me
You just turn your pretty head and walk away

frasier · 16/04/2018 18:13

Is that the one?

No idea what he’s getting at though!

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:13

If it is a hint it makes him look needy. Hmm

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adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:13

YES thanks that’s it.

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PrettyLittIeThing · 16/04/2018 18:14

Seems odd to send to someone you've only started talking to. Do you actually know him? As you said you thougt you went to school with him? Did you?

Whywonttheyletmeusemyusername · 16/04/2018 18:15

Oh god...I have a guy that does this to me...its infuriating. I'm too old to play games....stop sending me song lyrics and get to the bloody point! !!! He's single..I'm single...say what you want. And before anyone says it - I've already taken that step...to no avail. But still he sends the lyrics. No advice op...other than maybe send him some ????? and see what he responds

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:17

No I didn’t go to school with him he went to a neighboring school in town.

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category12 · 16/04/2018 18:19

A song he likes that he thinks you'll like? A song he likes but hasn't really listened to the lyrics? A song he likes and thinks the lyrics are apt? Who knows? I'd ignore it or send a question mark.

PinkCalluna · 16/04/2018 18:20

I’d quietly block him personally.

Goodasgoldilox · 16/04/2018 18:22

You could send him a random one in return - the-wheels-on-the-bus perhaps?

Let him spend hours trying to work out its significance and what it means about your response to the one he sent...

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:24

Good idea. I’ll find a good one. What’s that song about leaving the cake out in the rain and it’s exceptionally long? Smile

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adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:28

Then again if I’m not interested in him blocking would be something to consider or just don’t respond.

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Ryder63 · 16/04/2018 18:28

MacArthur Park - Richard Harris Smile

frasier · 16/04/2018 18:29

MacArthur Park

Spring was never waiting for us, girl
It ran one step ahead
As we followed in the dance
Between the parted pages and were pressed
In love's hot, fevered iron
Like a striped pair of pants
MacArthur's Park is melting in the dark
All the sweet, green icing flowing down
Someone left the cake out in the rain
I don't think that I can take it
'Cause it took so long to bake it
And I'll never have that recipe again
Oh no!
I recall the yellow cotton dress
Foaming like a wave
On the ground around your knees
The birds, like tender babies in your hands
And the old men playing checkers by the trees
MacArthur's Park is melting in the dark
All the sweet, green icing flowing down
Someone left the cake out in the rain
I don't think that I can take it
'Cause it took so long to bake it
And I'll never have that recipe again
Oh no!
There will be another song for me
For I will sing it
There will be another dream for me
Someone will bring it
I will drink the wine while it is warm
And never let you catch me looking at the sun
And after all the loves of my life
After all the loves of my life
You'll still be the one
I will take my life into my hands and I will use it
I will win the worship in their eyes and I will lose it
I will have the things that I desire
And my passion flow like rivers through the sky
And after all the loves of my life
Oh, after all the loves of my life
I'll be thinking of you
And wondering why
MacArthur's Park is melting in the dark
All the sweet, green icing flowing down
Someone left the cake out in the rain
I don't think that I can take it
'Cause it took so long to bake it
And I'll never have that recipe again
Oh no!
Oh no
No
Oh no!

frasier · 16/04/2018 18:30

😆

Ryder63 · 16/04/2018 18:30

I'd consider Leash by Pearl Jam.....
Drop the leash drop the leash
Get outta' my fuckin' face Grin

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:33

Lol! Thanks!

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TroubledLichen · 16/04/2018 18:39

This sounds like a ‘courtship’ from when I was at 6th form... a cheeky poke to soften up the ground and let them know you’re interested, sending some cheesy song lyrics via msn messenger. Messaging your friend trying to work out what on earth it all means... I’d end it now and block as the only place this is going is a bit of slap and tickle round the back of the student union after he buys you a £1 test tube shot.

adayatthebeach · 16/04/2018 18:48

Thanks Troubled I like hearing it as it is so cleverly!

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DalmatianSpring · 16/04/2018 21:30

That would be a massive cringe from me.

tccat · 16/04/2018 21:41

Fuck Off And Die by Kid Rock could be a good response, or not