It's not been very long since we did the deed, maybe a week or two? But the baby hasn't been sleeping well (hardly at all), and she's in our room, so there's no chance at night. We have 4 other kids, so the rest of the house is off limits. I've recently bought new clothes that made me super confident, and the boyfriend's flirted a few times, but with the kids and the (difficult!) baby, I haven't reciprocated at the same time. We're just off our groove, I guess. Not that we're always going at it, but when we're not, I feel it. Sorry, I'm just wide awake and he's snoring next to me and I'm feeling like a pout. 