Just that really.
I've bitten the bullet and booked an assessment at Relate. Two week waiting list apparently.
Really want things to work out and for us to get back to the way we were. I've asked him to go for counselling on his own (I've previously been for unrelated issue but one that did affect our relationship) but he's reluctant. He'll come to this though.
Argh. Never thought we'd be in this position.