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Are there any genuine nonsexual Escort Agencies

43 replies

VeryLynn · 08/04/2018 23:52

I’ve been looking at a site called DukesofDaisy which claims to be non sexual but I can’t decide if it’s legit or not. Has anyone used them?

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AnyFucker · 08/04/2018 23:55

Why do you want to know ?

TM71 · 09/04/2018 00:01

No, even sugarbabies have to have sex with their wrinkly old benefactors. No man is going to wine and dine you and pay for the privilege and expect nothing in return.

elefunk · 09/04/2018 00:30

Well they can't legally advertise they'll have sex for money. Hmm

IfNot · 09/04/2018 00:32

No.

sameoldsame · 09/04/2018 01:26

No
Sorry

halfwitpicker · 09/04/2018 01:27

Are you clutching at straws op?

NotTheFordType · 09/04/2018 04:12

No. And I'm an escort. Feel free to pm me.

Uggie · 09/04/2018 06:03

Are you wanting to be an escort or hire one?

TreacsPotNoodle · 09/04/2018 06:12

@NotTheFordType so what's the difference between an escort and prostitute then?

SoSobored · 09/04/2018 06:18

They're is an agency called 'houseofladies' that is also non sexual. Some people that are asexual but lonely may hire an escort, also people hire escorts if they just need a date to something.

RidingWindhorses · 09/04/2018 06:32

Is this what your husband told you OP?

Ohyesiam · 09/04/2018 06:37

A friend who had been an escort in London I’m the 90 s told me that her agency had a no sexual contact rule, but that was just for legal purposes, and everyone did.

VeryLynn · 09/04/2018 10:26

Thank you for your replies. No, not what my dp told me. Dsis was considering it as an option via the agency I mentioned in my op. I was skeptical but don't know a whole lot, so thought I'd ask here. You've all pretty much told me what I thought.

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IfNot · 09/04/2018 11:46

@NotTheFordType so what's the difference between an escort and prostitute then?
No difference other than escorts tend to go to hotels, or work out of flats alone (as opposed to being on the street or in brothels).

Wherearemymarbles · 09/04/2018 11:55

You mean dsis wants to be an escort but without the sex?

I imagine the agency books on the basis of time and any ‘other arrangements’ are made between the 2 parties involved.

Most, if not all men would be expecting sex.

ButternutCrinkleFries · 09/04/2018 11:59

All escorts have sex with clients. You advertise for time and companionship only but clients would be mightily unhappy if they got time and companionship for their money.

Mothergothic · 09/04/2018 13:13

Nope! There are non sexual escorts out there (ie. You can hire no sex) but there agency? Noooooo

TM71 · 09/04/2018 13:49

An escort by any other name is still a prostitute. In general terms if you refer to sex workersnhat includes everyone from porno, webcam, phone sex, indie, brothel or street.

Escorts can be anything from high class to a girl who works independently from her own premises or who tours nationally or internationally.

But no matter how hey dress it up something will be expected.

Newerversion · 09/04/2018 15:15

Yes, escorts and prostitutes are the same thing in that they both sell sex for money.

I mean I guess there may be the odd few people who hire and then don't go through with sex but certainly the intent would be there whilst booking an escort.

NotTheFordType · 09/04/2018 18:53

@TreacsPotNoodle

Nothing. It's a synonym. See also:
Whore, streetwalker, hooker, working girl, service provider, courtesan, etc etc etc.
(I personally prefer whore.)

@elefunk
Of course we can! Sex work is not illegal!
Soliciting in a public place is illegal.
"Controlling prostitution for gain" (i.e. running a brothel or an agency) is illegal.

Gwenhwyfar · 09/04/2018 19:36

I don't see why it wouldn't be possible to pay someone and tell them you don't want to have sex. Why would they complain if you're paying them what you're supposed to pay them?

NotTheFordType · 09/04/2018 19:41

@Gwenhyfar

Sorry I just mis-read that. Yes it's perfectly possible for a man to pay for "company only" but in many years I've never encountered it and neither have any of the other ladies I speak to.

The closest you're gonna get is my friend who had a guy who booked an hour, arrived at her hotel room, said "my car is on double yellows so this is gonna be quick" and ejaculated and left within 5 minutes.

The most common scam is for men to pretend they don't want sex and then engage you in long drawn out phone calls, emails, texts and whatsapp conversations, complete with requests for face pics, pics of your boobs, sending you dick pics, etc. They have no intention of booking, they're just using you to wank.

Any "agency" that tells you they have lots of high class clients, probably in the UK on business, who just want a girl to wine and dine, is a scam.

NotTheFordType · 09/04/2018 19:45

And I would complain mightily if I was expected to make conversation and massage a guy's ego for an hour instead of giving him the service he booked.

Would you book a haircut and then ask your hairdresser to just keep you company for an hour?

NotTheFordType · 09/04/2018 19:47

OP - again PM me if you want more information (I can give you several helpful resources to pass on.) I don't want to derail your thread with discussions about the legality or morality of sex work.

Gwenhwyfar · 09/04/2018 20:58

"Yes it's perfectly possible for a man to pay for "company only" but in many years I've never encountered it and neither have any of the other ladies I speak to. "

I didn't say man though did I? I wrote that in case OP wanted to pay for company. I presume it's possible.
There must be some people who find sitting and chatting easier than having sex with a stranger?
I think some people do go to the hairdressers for a chat by the way.

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